We had our family over for a Valentine’s breakfast this morning. Our grown children and their children. Hearts on the napkins. Pink and red straws. I set the table with china that we use for family dinners. It belonged to Patrick’s Mom. One of the daughters will inherit it one day and use it at her family gatherings. So we, the current parents and grandparents, got to spend time with those we love… and those who were parents and grandparents before us were probably near us celebrating, too- glad to be remembered and included.
Patrick made pancakes. We caught up on what filled our week. We talked about the house one daughter will be moving into in a few weeks. We did what families do around a meal table.
I am always aware that Patrick and I may not be around when these grandchildren are adults. One hopes for the best. But, you never know. And so I want whatever they remember of us to be loving. I try to have the house full of the smell of dinner cooking when they walk in for Sunday dinners, and the table looking pretty. Someday they may remember those things and feel comforted. We tell them often that we love them. We play and hug and spend time. Because we can now. We are all here. Together at times like these. And it does not escape Patrick and I that this is a rich, rich privilege.
One daughter brought gifts of candy. One brought a heart-shaped cookie cake. And one had the grandchildren decorate and sign cards. And… that’s a Valentine’s day. Which, for us, is really just a reason to gather.
So we’ll gather for St. Patrick’s Day (I think we are walking a 5 K this year). And Easter. And on birthdays and and other days that we can.
Because these three grown, beautiful, strong, smart women are our best Valentines… out family. And their children are our best loves.
And we are rich.
So if you have family, give them a call. Drop them a card. Bring them a flower. Make them a pancake. If you have a friend, be a surprise Palentine.
This is not your Daddy’s Valentine’s day. And it’s not just for romance any more.
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